When Everything Changes

When Everything Changes

Transition. It’s a word that literally means change. My body, my identity, my life has been in flux for the past 3 years simply due to the inescapable need to realise my gender identity physically. With each passing day I become closer to who I feel I was...
Gender Neutral Bathrooms At Work

Gender Neutral Bathrooms At Work

My prolonged blogging absence hasn’t been without excuse. I’ve been freelancing in most of my free time and caught an awful cold that completely killed my week. Every night has involved crashing around 9pm. Every parent knows nothing gets done during the...
A Year in Transition

A Year in Transition

I’m pretty sure 2016 has been the most taxing, eventful, and dramatic year of my entire life. It’s also been an amazing progression when it comes to my gender transition. Here is everything I accomplished with my gender transition in 2016: Got acceptance...
Snowflakes

Snowflakes

The snow fell more heavily on our faces as we stood in unseasonably warm weather. The two of us waited patiently in the schoolyard to pick up the older kids.  The 3 year old, well 4 next week, followed a group of older children around. “Lets go somewhere...
I Got Top Surgery!

I Got Top Surgery!

As you probably know if you’ve been following this blog yesterday was a pretty big day for me. Yep, it was surgery day! In case you’re not sure what that means, here’s a quick rundown: Top surgery is a double mastectomy where they also masculinize...
Coping with NICU PTSD

Coping with NICU PTSD

I didn’t think my twins’ prematurity would affect me this strongly but I still can’t look at a picture of newborn twins without getting insanely jealous and angry. Whenever someone shares a breastfeeding photo I want to block them. Pictures of tiny...